Stephen “Steve” Robert Slaughter

Date of Death: May 1, 2025

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Amherst Chapel

1600 Amherst Street

Winchester, VA 22601

Thursday 5/8, 10:00 am

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Memorial contributions may be made to
Blue Ridge Hospice or the Judges Athletic Association

Stephen Robert Slaughter, known as Steve, 71 of Winchester VA, passed away peacefully at his Winchester home surrounded by family after a courageous battle with cancer.

Steve was born in 1953 in Winchester, the son of the late Ralph and Jeanne Slaughter. He graduated from John Handley High School in 1971 and attended the University of Arizona in Tucson. Steve was an owner of Frederick Block, Brick & Stone.

Steve proposed to Debbie Stone, the love of his life, after just two weeks of courtship. They were married on May 22, 1976, in Winchester, VA where they spent their life raising their children.

Steve was a devoted husband, father, and grandfather who cherished spending time with his family, especially during many beach vacations where he taught them how to ‘ride the waves’. He spent his time outside of work living life to the fullest with his wife and enjoying golfing with his friends.

Steve is survived by his loving wife of 50 years, Debbie; his children, Stephen Carlton Slaughter (Amy), Steffany Slaughter Plotts (Greg), Stacey Slaughter Williams (Courtney); and his cherished grandchildren, Alexis Jeanne Plotts, Stephen Finnegan Slaughter, Hudson Stone Slaughter, Preston Gregory Plotts, Raylan Cooper Williams, and Stone Sawyer Williams. He was preceded in death by his parents, Jeanne Lyles Slaughter and Ralph Eugene Slaughter, his sister Zemma Lee Shand, and his brother Bruce Alan Slaughter.

A service to honor Steve’s life will be held on Thursday, May 8, 2025, at 10 am at Omps Funeral Home, Amherst Chapel. Interment will be private, and the service will be officiated by Bill Britz.

The pallbearers will be Stephen Slaughter, Greg Plotts, Courtney Williams, Finn Slaughter, Hudson Slaughter, Preston Plotts, Lexy Plotts, Raylan Williams and Stone Williams.

In Lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Blue Ridge Hospice or the Judges Athletic Association.

Frank and Danille

Jim and Emily Tremoulis

Margi & Rob Connor

Kyle Kennedy

Kimberly Sowers

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Debbie Slaughter

Byron Boyd

Gary and Karen Lineweaver

Stacey Williams

Amherst Chapel

1600 Amherst Street

Winchester, VA 22601

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Thursday 5/8, 10:00 am

Memorial contributions may be made to
Blue Ridge Hospice or the Judges Athletic Association

Stephen Robert Slaughter, known as Steve, 71 of Winchester VA, passed away peacefully at his Winchester home surrounded by family after a courageous battle with cancer. Steve was born in 1953 in Winchester, the son of the late Ralph and Jeanne Slaughter. He graduated from John Handley High School in 1971 and attended the UniversityContinue Reading

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My prayers and thoughts are with all the family. I remember Stevie coming over for dinner as well, and I also remember staying at my Aunt Jeanne and Uncle Ralph's home with my brother Robbie. Stevie was so kind and fun loving, and protective of us for we were very young. As we grew, I saw him as a strong businessman with a gentle heart. ❤️ Peace be with you.

Deepest sympathy to Debbie and the Slaughter family for your recent loss. But many fond memories will linger of Steve and our Miller family, especially those youthful escapades involving my brother Buck. Steve was extraordinarily helpful at Frederick Block when we re-landscaped the lake property a few years ago. A fine man, who went the extra mile, he will sorely be missed.

As kids, we thought Stevie was a god! Good looking, athletic and smart. Dad used to bring him to our house on weekends from St. James for home cooked meals. I recall watching him play football there. He looked like his beautiful mother. All our sympathy to his family!! Peace…

In memory of Stephen “Steve” Robert Slaughter, Frank and Danille lit a candle

Debbie, Steve, Stephanie and Stacy, please accept our sincere condolences for your loss. Steve was a wonderful, friendly and supportive patriarch for you all. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. ❤️ Love Jim and Emily

Peace of mind is a call away. We're here when you need us most.

Dear Debbie, Stevie, Steffany, Stacey and Family, May you find peace, joy and strength in your memories of Steve ... The beauty of a memory, is that it's always there. When your heart is heavy, and your eyes are filled with tears ... You can focus on a memory and travel thru the years. Our deepest condolences to you and your family. Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.

I will always have such fond memories of Steve (Mr. Slaughter as I first knew him!) rooting on the Judges and just being a smiling face wherever I saw him. He will be missed and remembered fondly by all of us who knew him. My thoughts a prayers to all of you, Debbie, Steff, Steve and Stacey and all your family.

Thank you for the shared memories Steve. Forts in the woods (especially The Place) , high school shenanigans (the Enterprise) , exploring Arizona and Mexico together. Adventuring across the US and Canada in a ‘65 VW mini bus I will always cherish your friendship. May Debbie and your children and grandchildren take comfort in the fact that they could never have had a better Husband and Father As you said to me with a laugh such a short time ago “LABASH forever!

I did not know Steve, but I have worked with Frederick Block and a handful of higher management who worked hand in hand with Steve. No one had a bad thing to say. If the success, culture and morals of Frederick Block are any representation of Steve, we lost a truly great man.

In memory of Stephen “Steve” Robert Slaughter, Kimberly Sowers lit a candle

Steve was a good man and friend. He always helped me in my masonry business and supported me in my music. Every time I’d see him he’d call me “Clapton.” My prayers and sincerest sympathies to his family. He will be missed.

Steve our beloved brother in-law fought long and hard to beat the cancer. Gil and I enjoyed talking to him last week. We love him and will miss him terribly. We will help watch over Debbie for you. Rest in peace. Shari and Gil (you called Gil eye ball)

One of the friendliest guys I’ve ever known & he never had to figure out which twin I was… he always said “Hi, Cindy”with a big smile!! He will be missed. My best to Debbie & the family.

Our deepest condolences to Debbie and all of Steve's family and friends . There are almost 70 years of history between the Slaughter and Cahill families. We have been through a lifetimme of fun adventures , joy , sadness and growth . It has been great being able to reconnect with Steve in recent years and hear of his love of his kids ,grandkids and others though I am far away . Thank you Steve for your friendship and support . LABASH forever !

Debbie, Steve, Steff and Stacey and family. You are blessed to have shared your life with a man like Steve! Loving friend, Great Dad, great supporter, with a great sense of humor! Those qualities are special, Just as special as happy memories you can always count on! Sincerely, Rick Kern

My heart goes out to Steve's family that he loved and cherished; and to his friends to whom he was loyal and generous. He was a special person that we will miss, may he be a light in our lives.

Prayers to the Family of Steve, he was wonderful and will be deeply missed.

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family, Debbie.. Steve was a wonderful person that we had the utmost respect for. Let us know if you need anything.

Debbie, Stevie, Steph and Stacey. I am heartbroken for you all to lose your precious husband and father. Matt and I have such great memories of having you guys as our neighbors when we lived on Leicester St. Steve was a great man, a great friend, a great husband and father. I am so sorry for your loss. Debbie, please reach out to me at any time. I will DM you with my cell number. I can’t imagine the sadness that you are going through right now, I will be praying for you. Love you, Sherry Phillips

Steve was an amazing man I always looked up to him. Rest in peace

Peace of mind is a call away. We're here when you need us most.

In memory of Stephen “Steve” Robert Slaughter, Debbie Slaughter lit a candle

Debbie just to let you know your three sisters send hugs and lots of love we wish you loving memories to get you through these days. Love Linda & Steve, Patti & Bill, Shari and GIl

Debbie, Steve, Stephany and Stacy, I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that I am thinking about all of you at this time. Carol Chapman

Our heartfelt condolences go out to the Slaughter family. Steve was always kind to us. We know he will be greatly missed.

In honor of a life filled with joy.

Breaks my heart, Steve was a great friend since grade school. Most of all he was all about his family and he truly loved each and every one as much as a anyone could. He will be truly missed .

Debbie and family, our sincere condolences. My parents Bill & Charlotte loved you two so much and enjoyed renting you their little house. As Steve always said “our fun humble beginning of our life together!!” He was such a joy to run into at Frederick Block. So glad you both lived life to the fullest. A lesson for all of us. Hugs

Our deepest sympathies to Debbie we love you dearly sis he will be missed by this family

In memory of Stephen “Steve” Robert Slaughter, Stacey Williams lit a candle

Debbie and family, we are so sorry for your loss and send our deepest condolences.

Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.