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Pieter Van Den Assum

Date of Death: May 17, 2025
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Candice & Calvin Koch
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Susan and Tom Melhuish
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Service
Amherst Chapel
1600 Amherst Street
Winchester, VA 22601
Friday 5/30, 11:00 am

Celebration of Life
Please call Johanna (703-862-0621) if you like to come
No dress code but also no black or gray

Memorial

Memorial contributions may be made to
St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital
P.O. Box 1000, Dept. 142
Memphis, TN 38148

Pieter, who was born in The Netherlands in 1955, was the youngest of 4 and the only boy. His sisters were 4, 5 and 6 years older. Sometimes they would tease him but that never stopped him respecting the ladies over the men throughout his life. In his later teenage years and into his earlyContinue Reading

Barbara left a message on May 30, 2025:
With you in prayers and spirit.
Simone Metz left a message on May 30, 2025:
So sorry to hear of your passing. You will be missed in the neighborhood.
Candice & Calvin Koch left a message on May 28, 2025:
God speed Peter. Didn't really get a chance to know you better. I came in the group not to long before COVID shutdown and the group went on Zoom. The last time I saw you we bumped into each other at the clinic and the person with you said they were proceeding forward with you because you weren't doing well. I'm glad that part of your journey went well. You will be missed.
Barbara Burlingame left a message on May 28, 2025:
Pieter will be dearly missed. My Irish heritage brought this blessing to mind. May the road rise up to meet you. May the wind be always at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face, And rains fall soft upon your fields. And until we meet again, May God hold you in the hollow of his hand. My thoughts are with you tonight as they have been these days Johanna and Pim and Rob. Please call on me if you need something with which I can assist.
Steven Nathan left a message on May 27, 2025:
My sincere condolences. Pieter was a wonderful gentleman, always inquisitive and a pleasure to take care of. He will be missed by the Inova team. Steve Nathan
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Susan and Tom Melhuish left a message on May 26, 2025:
We were very sorry to hear of Pieter’s passing. Both he and Johanna were our neighbor here in Vienna for the past 20 years. We fondly remember our conversations about a variety of topics and Pieter’s sense of humor. He will be missed. We are making a contribution to St. Jude in his honor.
Marcia and Rich left a message on May 24, 2025:
Johanna- Please accept our sincere condolences. Pieter was kind and funny, and we loved having you both as friends.
Racha Hughes left a message on May 24, 2025:
My husband, Dan, and I met Pieter in 2017-8, when Dan was newly diagnosed with Idiopathic Pulminary Fibrosis,IPF. We just started to attend the IPF support group, and they were having a tour of the new Inova Fairfax gym. Peter had to have seen the "deer in the head lights" look on our faces. He fixed his lazer beam gaze on us right away. I remember asking Dan if we knew him from somewhere. That was so true to how our friendship with Pieter would be. Even though Pieter had to deal with his own trials and tribulations that all IPF warriors had to endure, he always took time to asked and listen to how Dan was doing. We continued to meet in support group meetings as well as at other IPF related forum. From familiar faces to friendship, then comradery, to a point that I started to think of him as my big brother. Pieter and Johanna became our source of advice and comfort. Dan and I discovered a few things about Pieter; his love and respect for Johanna, the love of his life, his affections for the family, his sweet tooth and his wicked sense of humor. Pieter would say something naughty or provocative. Then, with twinkeling eyes and a hint of grin, he would wait to see your reaction. Acting outraged would only encourage him! With Pieter, even a Tyson's Mall walk got exciting. We would talked about any and every thing; news of the day, weather, AND politics! We never ran out of things to talk about. Our "just a quick visits" to Pieter and Johanna tended to run long. Before we knew it a few hours had passed and still had more to talk about. Rest well my big brother, a trail blazer and a warrior. Missing you would be something we had to endure, but we had great memories of you to sustain us. Love, your lil' Sis, Racha Dan and Racha Hughes
Laurie Goldberg left a message on May 23, 2025:
To Johanna and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Pieter was a wonderful kind thoughtful person always looking out for others. When I joined the gym he was one of the first to welcome me and show me the rope, play badketball,etc. He helped me through some hard times and remained a good friend. Everyone who knew him will feel his loss. My thoughts go out to you all at this difficult time. Laurie Goldberg
Tom Devlin left a message on May 23, 2025:
Piet was a tremendous asset to those of us who suffer from IPF. I will always remember how he and Johanna took the lead welcoming us to the support group at INOVA. Of course the least I can do is make a contribution to St Jude's in his name. He will be greatly missed!
Dan and Racha Hughes left a message on May 23, 2025:
Rest well, Pieter. You fought a valiant fight and earned greatest respect from us. Thank you for being a friend to us both, a fellow warrier to Dan, and a big brother to me. Love you, 💐 Racha Hughes
Omps Funeral Home left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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