Phyllis was born in Minnesota to Allen and Josephine Gow. After marrying John Wall in college, they eventually settled in New Jersey with their two children, Craig and Claudia. Phyllis thrived in Community Theater and off-Broadway productions. Tennis and golf rounded out her favorite activities.

When John retired in 1991, they moved to their summer home on Ocracoke Island in the Outer Banks as full-time residents. She grew involved in many activities and island events, weaving herself into the hearts of the islanders. After becoming widowed in 1997, Phyllis traveled the world with some close friends, visiting Italy, Ireland, and snorkeling in Jamaica.

Craig moved in with her in 2012 in poor health, and she devoted her life to caring for him. The island had surrounded her with love when she mourned John and did so again after her son passed in 2018.

Phyllis spoke to anyone she saw. She never met a stranger, only new friends. Her table at trivia night was the coveted place to be; she had become an icon.

In February 2021, as her health declined, Phyllis moved to a retirement community near her daughter in Virginia. She enjoyed lunches out, trivia with other residents, and seeing her grandchildren. After a brief illness, she passed peacefully.

She is deeply missed by her daughter Claudia and husband Michael Stacey; her grandchildren, Marcel Lachance, Beau Lachance, Aline Dias, and their spouses; and Megan Wall. She is also survived by one great-grandchild, Bella Lachance.

Donations in Phyllis’ name to the NADF, National Adrenal Diseases Foundation, are appreciated.