Elmo “Sonny” Ray Neff, Jr.

Date of Death: August 9, 2025

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Amherst Chapel

1600 Amherst Street

Winchester, VA 22601

Thursday 8/14, 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm

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Amherst Chapel

1600 Amherst Street

Winchester, VA 22601

Friday 8/15, 11:00 am

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Fairview Church Cemetery

1132 Double Church Road

Stephens City, VA 22655

5408695156 |

Friday 8/15

Elmo Ray Neff, Jr., 78 of Stephens City, VA, passed away on Saturday, August 9, 2025, at Winchester Medical Center.

Sonny was born in 1947 in Winchester, VA and he was the son of the late Elmo “Slim” Ray Neff, Sr. and Mildred Lee Neff. He was owner and President of ER Neff Excavating. Sonny enjoyed racing cars at Winchester Speedway and was owner of 4N and 4J racing teams. He and his wife, Clara Groveen, enjoyed being involved with antique cars.

He is survived by his wife, Clara Groveen whom he married on February 19, 1966; sons, Jeff Neff (Shannon), Todd Neff (Chrissy); grandchildren, Brittany, Sean, Mikeal, Colleen, Jacob and Allison; great-granddaughter, Lilly; sister, Libby Ramey and brother, John Neff, Sr.

In addition to his parents, Sonny is preceded in death by his son, Elmo “Ray” Neff, III and sisters, Jenny Clem and Debbie Furley.

A visitation will be held for Sonny on Thursday, August 14, 2025, from 6pm to 8pm with a service to be conducted the following day, Friday, August 15, 2025, all held at Omps Funeral Home, Amherst Chapel. Interment will be in Fairview Church Cemetery in Stephens City. Officiating will be Pastor John Lock.

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Amherst Chapel

1600 Amherst Street

Winchester, VA 22601

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Thursday 8/14, 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm

Amherst Chapel

1600 Amherst Street

Winchester, VA 22601

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Friday 8/15, 11:00 am

Fairview Church Cemetery

1132 Double Church Road

Stephens City, VA 22655

5408695156 | Map

Friday 8/15

Elmo Ray Neff, Jr., 78 of Stephens City, VA, passed away on Saturday, August 9, 2025, at Winchester Medical Center. Sonny was born in 1947 in Winchester, VA and he was the son of the late Elmo “Slim” Ray Neff, Sr. and Mildred Lee Neff. He was owner and President of ER Neff Excavating. SonnyContinue Reading

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In memory of Elmo “Sonny” Ray Neff, Jr., Stonebridge Farm lit a candle

I'm so sorry for your loss, he was such a nice man. Friend to all.

WE are so very sorry for your loss. He was such a great person.

Sonny was a good man and friend . He will be missed by many.

Prayers and hugs to the Neff family in this difficult time ❤️

Peace of mind is a call away. We're here when you need us most.

We are so sorry for your loss. Sonny will be missed by so many. We are here for you, whatever and whenever you need. Sending lots of love!

Sonny Neff was a big man with a bigger heart. He has done so much for my family, my home and this community. He has helped immensely my church of Fairview and also other churches as well. I remember how he loved to help churches such as Refuge with bidding up Ginny's cakes at their Yard Party. He will not be forgotten. Prayers for all of the family.

Prayers out to this beloved family💝

We are so sorry for your loss. We are here for you in any way you need. Love you all.

May you rest in peace and rejoice in the Lord’s paradise until we meet again .

Sonny was one of the first contractors I ever dealt with during my time at Eastern Supply. I always enjoyed our interactions. My sincere condolences and much love to entire Neff clan.

In memory of Elmo “Sonny” Ray Neff, Jr., Greg McCauley lit a candle

Chrissy & Todd and family, So very sorry for your family’s loss!! Know God will bless you all as you grieve with comfort only He can provide!!

Sonny ,you will be missed , always enjoyed our Talks, god bless you RIP, WILL KEEP UR FAMILY ,IN OUR PRAYERS ,LEE FRANKLIN AND FAMILY

In memory of Elmo “Sonny” Ray Neff, Jr., Cathy Johnson lit a candle

Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.